From the Desk of Lady Diva
No I am not talking about your first crush or high school sweetheart. I am talking about MASTURBATION!!!! Yes, you read it right!
We all know that before we knew how to kiss, some of us were experiencing the satisfaction of that sweet orgasm. Men, don't think the ladies don't know that you have been practicing jacking off at 11, 12, 13. Ding, ding, ding...that when the teenage love affair begins. Hell, we were rubbing the Kat too. I mean, naturally, if we can't pleasure ourselves, how can we expect you to know what to do or help YOU help US get there, for that matter.
Let me see if I can remember when I first fell in love with masturbating. Oh yes, we are in love. A friend to the end, will never let you down and always there to lend a helping hand (smile). It had to be in junior high school. All the the girls and boys were discussing which "base" they had gotten too and with whom. Poor me, I didn't know even know how to kiss, much less touch and play with a penis or myself. So on one of my nights of solitude - the nights when my brother and sister were sleep before me - I went in the bathroom for my second bath (my cover in the event someone woke up) and began to find the spot that woke a feeling in me that made me smile like the Cheshire cat. I unconsciously began to play with my nipples which excited me and then I began to feel this rhythmic pulse between my legs. When I found where the sensation was coming from, I allowed my finger to dance to its beat.
Now for all those that don't remember your first orgasm is the most scariest and powerful shit you have yet to experience. I couldn't stop my leg from shaking, chills were running up and down my spine; I wanted to scream. Just when I thought I couldn't take anymore my body began to spasm and a rush of calm filled me from head to toe.
Although it was the best thing that could have happened to me, I felt awkward and knew I couldn't share this with any of my friends. Therefore, I retreated to the pages in my journal. I never had the urge to try it again (not until I was 21). It was a great experience, I guess I just wasn't ready for what was next; Facing my sexuality. (Sorry that's another topic for another day). It was another 2 years before I allowed anyone <---(pay attention) anyone to play with Miss Kitty and another 5 before I was forced to do it for myself. Lol. However, that first orgasm set the precedent for future encounters and became an addiction there after. Like a dope fiend needing a hit, I now had the itch for more.
If you have a comment or a story to share on your "Teenage Love Affair" feel free to share it here.
Lady Diva
We all know that before we knew how to kiss, some of us were experiencing the satisfaction of that sweet orgasm. Men, don't think the ladies don't know that you have been practicing jacking off at 11, 12, 13. Ding, ding, ding...that when the teenage love affair begins. Hell, we were rubbing the Kat too. I mean, naturally, if we can't pleasure ourselves, how can we expect you to know what to do or help YOU help US get there, for that matter.
Let me see if I can remember when I first fell in love with masturbating. Oh yes, we are in love. A friend to the end, will never let you down and always there to lend a helping hand (smile).
Now for all those that don't remember your first orgasm is the most scariest and powerful shit you have yet to experience. I couldn't stop my leg from shaking, chills were running up and down my spine; I wanted to scream. Just when I thought I couldn't take anymore my body began to spasm and a rush of calm filled me from head to toe.
Although it was the best thing that could have happened to me, I felt awkward and knew I couldn't share this with any of my friends. Therefore, I retreated to the pages in my journal. I never had the urge to try it again (not until I was 21). It was a great experience, I guess I just wasn't ready for what was next; Facing my sexuality. (Sorry that's another topic for another day). It was another 2 years before I allowed anyone <---(pay attention) anyone to play with Miss Kitty and another 5 before I was forced to do it for myself. Lol. However, that first orgasm set the precedent for future encounters and became an addiction there after. Like a dope fiend needing a hit, I now had the itch for more.
If you have a comment or a story to share on your "Teenage Love Affair" feel free to share it here.
Lady Diva
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Girl, you better preach......this blog is so hot, so real, so in your face.....I mean you have to respond, can I virtually shake your hand! Damn! The first orgasm DOES set the precedent for ALL others....you will forever reach for the same feeling of complete satisfaction.......and YES I know about the rush of calm!
ReplyDeleteOK I WANT BE SHARING ANY THING BECAUSE YOU ALREADY DID THAT, THATS ARE LITTLE SECRET,WHEN HUBBY OR BOYFRIEND IS MESSING UP WE ALL TURN TO THAT SPOT OR SOME TIMES WE TURN TO THAT SPOT WHEN WE TAKE A BATH WHEN WE FEELING THAT INSTANT NEED TO PLEASE ARE SELFS THAT IS...I THINK YOU COVER EVERY THING THAT A WOMEN EXPERIENCES AND DID EXPERIENCE AS GIRL YEAH YOU COVER EVERTHING.....
ReplyDeletePosted on Facebook from one of my readers:
ReplyDelete"I read ur blog and I blushed the whole way thru. There was once a time when women didn't masturbate, and if they did, they wouldn't talk about it. NOT ANY MORE! Thanks for burning down the walls with this fiery blog! Keep them coming ;)"
I will definitely keep them CUMMING!!! ;)
VERY HOTT!!!!!!!
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Cheez Bigkev
ReplyDeleteyour right . it was about that age. i didnt have sex until 21 myself. but i could eat some coochie tho. masturbation my first time had me addicted. after that it was blacktail mags hidden under my sink in the bathroom ..and long hours on the toilet and tub ... i remember very well
Hey Big Kev,
ReplyDeleteFellatio(eating coochie) is another form of jacking off for women. It happens to be the GREATEST form. I admit I was, umm, I am addicted to masturbation. However, I do enjoy when someone else does it for me!
Thanks for sharing!!
Hugs and Kisses!
So big and unwanted or not really talked about in public so openly. Fortunately, being able to please oneself is wonderful. You know your own time limit and don't have to worry about the questions afterward. This topic shows to me that once individuals realize that self-pleasure is as natural as it comes people will open up. I can't say i remember when it began for me but through the years it actually has been a powerful stress reliever.
ReplyDeleteabsolutely. I've masturbated so much that I can't remember the first time but whenever it was it slowed me from needing to have sex with men knowing that it might be impossible for them to get me there. I love masturbating. In my current relationship I masturbate often an it's hard for my dide to understand completely understand it he thinks that I cheat seeing that I don't push sex with him. Now we do get around to doing the do and his damn good at it it's just I like doing my self. It's safe and N-A-S-T-Y!
ReplyDeleteI agree with self-satisfaction and you have of correct. It is safe and a bit Nasty. If you can get it both ways knowing the sex is great bub feel you need that extra release. Do you. I believe you when you said it slowed down the sex. It's strange that it does that, can you blame it. I'm one woman that completely understand the love of loving one self.
ReplyDeletei first began to masturbate when i was like 12 years old. my dad always lept penthouse and playboy mags in the bathroom so i would spend alot of time in there reading them and i used to get so excited i started touching myself....the first orgasm was scary but Wonderful! After that i used to steal the mags and bring them in my room at night thats when it really started to get interesting.....i still masturbate when im stressed or horny and being that i dont have a man right now its just what i need....and right on time...all the time!
ReplyDeleteWow, boy even ya have to laugh at that one. Honestly i was older when i found myself letting my self free, boy can i say my life changed from that day own. LOL My attitude changed I was happy with myself. I am happy you got on that topic because alot of ladies need to find them self by exploring there bodies. There is nothing wrong with masturbating. You will find your self in a sexual place you never knew.
ReplyDeleteThanks for letting women know to free there selfs
YAYA