Let's Get Reacquainted!

Hello All,

Yes I have been gone for a minute traveling down all the different roads of life and found that I was most happy back where I already was. Does it feel like a complete waste of time? Not at all! I learned things about myself and others that I may not have had I not ventured out. I tried different things made some new friends, lost some friends and reconnected with lost friends. As far as the love life is concern, well ahh let's just say I am better off now.

They say it's better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. But how many times can you lose love before losing your DAMN mind. I mean really, maybe I am just really not ready for relationships or just not relationship material. I find that I am very selfish at times and I know it is a bad trait to carry into a budding relationship but if I don't think about me first and cater to my likes and dislikes then who will.

I remember feeling like I could rip my heart straight out my chest and burn it just so I could stop the pain from losing who I realized was my first love. I mean I was in love with him, I can't speak for that user. And then I found myself in one bad relationship after the other trying to find that same high. Like being addicted to drugs, trying to find the euphoria of the first hit is liable to kill you. I wore my vunerability on my sleeve and every bloodhound was able to track my scent and lie as dogs may. No I am not bitter just stating the facts. Maybe its the folks I attract or maybe its my inability to see through the bullsh*t. Either way I am done searching and done waiting. I am happy single (not to mention I finally got money in the bank). Yeah, it's a wonderful to shake loose the bad luck that has been holding me back and emerge under a new sun. One that shines towards purposeful and drama-free new year.

As this year closes, I pray that I continue to find happiness in just being Danette. Not your significant other, not your ATM, not your personal maid... Just the best me that GOD intended for me to be.

Changing Styles

Dear Friends

I have been so focused on hyping my books I have not been able to keep up with my blogs. I will be changing my focus and thus forth changing my style. In future blogs, it will include my journeys in publishing and information on my book signings and other events.

Thank you so much for your support.

Books & Blessings,
Danette Maroney aka Lady Diva

Completely Satisfied is on sale now for just $10.

Until Saturday, February 13th 2010, you can get your copy of Completely Satisfied for just $10 (plus s/h).

Don't let this great opportunity pass you by. Get your copy before they are all gone. Call us @ 404-644-2408 or email: envisagepub1@gmail.com to find out how you can take advantage of this offer.

Also, come hang with me next Friday, February 19th at Nubian Book store in Southlake Mall from 3p - 6p where I will be signing Completely Satisfied and introducing my newest novel, Never Too Much.

Thank all of you for your continued support and blessings,

Books & Blessings,
Danette Maroney

Completely Satisfied Special for all my friends and family.

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Email us @ envisagepub1@gmail.com or call 404-644-2408 M-F 8a-6p

Thank you,
Lady Diva

Guess Who Is Back?

I can not express how much I have missed blogging. I have been working diligently on completing my latest novel, Never Satisfied and studying for school. But now I am back and ready to dive head first back into the swing of things.

HAPPY NEW YEARS.

2010 -- It is a new decade people and it is time we get off of our backsides and make a difference. I am not talking about in the world, just yet. I am solely focusing on ourselves. Like some, I have let myself go. I have gained back all the weight I have worked so hard to get off over 5 years ago.

Now, I know you are reading and thinking what does this have to do with sex. ALOT!!! Without first pleasing ourselves, self-fulfillment, we are vulnerable to destruction. We seek less than we are worth because we don't believe we can achieve the best. Believe it or not, your sex drive is affected by lack of self-confidence. When your mind is constantly preoccupied with your looks, social and financial status, your sex game is thrown off.

It is our time to regain our confidence. No more excuses. If its your weight that's a problem, tackle it one small step at a time, let's cut out the junk and prepared foods. Your finances, cut back on the wants and focus on the needs. Your social status, get out there and network. Nobody wants a nobody. You have to be important to yourself in order to be important to somebody else. And if the person you are with is not about change, then change that too. Don't be held down and unhappy. It's ME time, baby!!!

Once we situate our lives to where we are comfortable in the role we play and the skin we are in, we will be ready to ride that horse (or lay down that pipe - Men). We have been giving our partners lazy sex because we are not in the mood to be intimate. That is not there fault and should not be punished. Keep in mind, it's only going to be so long before they seek to find that spice they are missing. Want to keep your mate? Satisfy yourself.

Books, Blessings & Bliss
Lady Diva

If your or someone you know is in the Atlanta, Georgia area; come meet me at Nubian Books in Southlake Mall, February 19th from 3pm to 6pm. I will be signing my first novel, Completely Satisfied. For more information, question or comments, feel free to contact me @ ladydiva821@yahoo.com.