From the desk of Lady Diva...
For a long time, I sought to fulfill each and every fantasy of mine as they came to mind. However I have yet to achieve my newest fantasy: go to a Swingers club. That's right friends, I want to see first hand the lifestyle that has come to light and recruits new members in groves.
One of my very first fantasies was to kiss a girl. However I was not brazen enough to go after it like I did all the others thereafter. Yet, I did live the fantasy and I liked it.
The same as most of you who are secure in your sexuality and seek to explore every new avenue, I wanted to have sex in the great outdoors. Still young and in my experimental stage, I conquered this fantasy and added it to my favorites IMMEDIATELY!
As the years progressed the thrill level of each fantasy increased and enjoyed the satisfaction of each adventurous accomplishment. But I have found myself in stand-still when it comes to chasing my latest and greatest fantasy of visiting a swingers club.
A few years ago a friend of mine asked me to visit one with him. Now as much as I love the excitement of sex in front of strangers, I was not big on watching others have sex. Therefore, I became apprehensive of actually going through with it. Yes, I admit I was not a fan of porn. Lol. Go figure.
Again to overcome this fear like all others I had to question what was holding me back. At first I felt as if it was my lack of excitement that would cause my significant other to resort to porn, I even had a brief lack of self-esteem thinking that I was not pretty or bootylicious. I got over the self esteem issue quick though because I knew I want lacking in the looks or booty departments. Leaving me to look into my bedroom performance. Now I have never had complaints but I knew there was more I could be doing to keep him from those damn videos so my last resort was to watch and learn.
Once that spark ignited inside me, it was on. I wanted to watch them with him, practice until perfect then start something new. Somehow in the mix of all this I began to desire more. Yet, I couldn't put my finger on what exactly I was looking for until I read "Erotic City" by Pynk. Her vivid descriptions of the swinger lifestyle awoke that inner freak in me. It was then I knew that I had to visit a swingers club. The thrill of watching a live porn, seeing the excitement bulge in my man's pants then finishing the job was the "umph" I needed to reach the next plateau. So we did and research and are making plans to make the most out of this new adventure.
This is not an invitation for anyone to live on the wild and dangerous side. As always keep it safe. I do urge you to fulfill those inner desires, enrich your relationship with your partner and yourself for that matter. If your fantasy is to be experimental, start simple. Some yet going for the full Monty and skip the baby steps necessary to achieve total enjoyment. You must first learn to love sex before you can love being experimental. Be confident in yourself and your sexuality. This alone will intensify each encounter.
As always live your dreams, love yourself, have sex and be happy.
Hugs & Kisses!!
Lady Diva
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WOWOWOWOWOW Lady Diva that was some story!!!!
ReplyDeleteI am GLAD that you shared your desire with us,your community because I TOTALLY believe that we too would love to embark on such a journey( if you with some one)but those of us who are NOT in any form of a relationship what do you suggest We do? I myself have a few desires too but for some reason i CANT seem to get some of them done???? i guess it may be because i really dont do the club thing anymore, but may i make a suggestion to you miss?
WHY NOT MAKE AN ONLINE CHAT FORUM ON A SITE WHERE WE CAN ALL LOGIN UNDER DIFFERENT NAMES BUT THROUGH A PASSWORD YOU MADE UP ON A SITE LIKE YAHOO OR MSN OR PAL TALK( IF THEY ARE STILL FUNCTIONING)????
Have it for 1,2,or 3 days a week when you can, n interact with your people.....i know i would be the first to join you!!!!!!!!!!! as well as this way people can give others info on such places like the swingers clubs or orgy parties by invite only an stuff like that.
I would even offer my services on fridays between 9:30pm to 1:30am if you can not do fridays or if you need a talker to spark the convo to get people going...lololol; i have speakers an will aqyire a headset this week an a webcam but you know that is NOT necessary but hey some like it some dont.
Well miss lady Diva it is just a suggestion, just something to think about...holla if you like, chenille a.k.a Queen Dejhab.k.a Countess Sapphire
Hey Chenille...Thanks for the comment and suggestion. We were discussing which route we would go from here and decided that we would wait to see how big of a following we could have in about 2 months. Right now we have readers but not too many comments. I love your enthusiasm. We need to speak offline.
ReplyDeleteEmail me: ladydiva821@yahoo.com.
Talk to you soon,
Lady D
I enjoyed the blog you wrote,i am excited i joined the site.I see you are a very open mined person on all levels. Fantasies that is a very interesting subject. I have lived some of my but have not completed them all sad to say. My day is coming soon
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wow very interesting topic. ive had several chances of visiting a swingers club. work schedule was the one thing that prevented it. but my fantasy is to watch my girlfriend?lover?wife be pleasure by another man or woman or maybe both.
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