Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

I felt this week would be our safe week. Initially, I thought not to post at all. However, I do want to ask you all one question? What are you most thankful for so far? I can be more than one thing. Let me start this off. I am most thankful for my health (good or bad - I am still living to talk about it), my support system (my family - again good or bad), my son (Mr. Magnificent), my boyfriend (thick or thin - we in it together), and my talents (writing, leadership, and so on).

So, use this forum to express your thanks!

We wish you a very happy and blessed holiday!!!

Envisage Publishing wishes you and yours Happy Holidays!!!

Completely Satisfied & Never Too Much - Buy 1 Get 1 - 50 % off

Greetings!

The holiday season is upon us and I am offering a holiday discount to all book lovers like myself.

Get a copy of Completely Satisfied and receive a 50% discount on it's sequel, Never too Much. Also, the first 50 buyers will receive a snippet of the third sequence, Never Satisfied.

If you or your loved one is an avid book reader and loves drama and suspense filled stories that leaves them yearning for more then you don't want to miss out on this deal.


Here is what people are saying about Completely Satisfied and Never Too Much!

"Completely Satisfied is Danette Maroney-Davoren's debut novel that depicts the love affair between Imani Wright and Quinton Banks...Quinton and Imani find out what they are made of apart as well as together. After looking for love in all the places they surrender to the fact that love will conquer all for them as long as they're together...I was totally impressed with the author's ability to pull me into the story immediately and keep me totally enthralled throughout the whole book. I was Completely Satisfied with this book. I believe others will be too and I look forward to her next novel." Delores Hines, SORMAG Reader's Retreat.

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All this for one specially discounted price of $22.50 + 4.00 s/h. ($26.50 total). this is a special holiday offer. Take advantage of this gift before it's too late.

Sincerely,

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Envisage Publishing

Also, continue to check out our blog on Give It To Me Right! and get a taste of the spicy and engaging dialogue we bring in our writing.

To purchase your copies and snag that sneak peek, email ladydiva821@yahoo.com to receive further information.

SEXUAL FANTASIES - Let's live our dreams and satisfy our DESIRES!!

From the desk of Lady Diva...

So...How has your week been? Sorry I am a little late with this week's post but I figured an extra few days to read then re-read last week's blog on Oral Sex may be a good thing for some. I have more responses from women than men on that one. Men complain about not receiving Oral sex but when I put it out there, [men] have ABSOLUTELY nothing to say in return. Tsk, tsk! Anyway, we are moving forward; Fantasies --- Sexual fantasies. Let's satisfy our desires.

For a long time, I sought to fulfill each and every fantasy of mine as they came to mind. However I have yet to achieve my newest fantasy: go to a Swingers club. That's right friends, I want to see first hand the lifestyle that has come to light and recruits new members in groves.

One of my very first fantasies was to kiss a girl. However I was not brazen enough to go after it like I did all the others thereafter. Yet, I did live the fantasy and I liked it.

The same as most of you who are secure in your sexuality and seek to explore every new avenue, I wanted to have sex in the great outdoors. Still young and in my experimental stage, I conquered this fantasy and added it to my favorites IMMEDIATELY!

As the years progressed the thrill level of each fantasy increased and enjoyed the satisfaction of each adventurous accomplishment. But I have found myself in stand-still when it comes to chasing my latest and greatest fantasy of visiting a swingers club.

A few years ago a friend of mine asked me to visit one with him. Now as much as I love the excitement of sex in front of strangers, I was not big on watching others have sex. Therefore, I became apprehensive of actually going through with it. Yes, I admit I was not a fan of porn. Lol. Go figure.

Again to overcome this fear like all others I had to question what was holding me back. At first I felt as if it was my lack of excitement that would cause my significant other to resort to porn, I even had a brief lack of self-esteem thinking that I was not pretty or bootylicious. I got over the self esteem issue quick though because I knew I want lacking in the looks or booty departments. Leaving me to look into my bedroom performance. Now I have never had complaints but I knew there was more I could be doing to keep him from those damn videos so my last resort was to watch and learn.

Once that spark ignited inside me, it was on. I wanted to watch them with him, practice until perfect then start something new. Somehow in the mix of all this I began to desire more. Yet, I couldn't put my finger on what exactly I was looking for until I read "Erotic City" by Pynk. Her vivid descriptions of the swinger lifestyle awoke that inner freak in me. It was then I knew that I had to visit a swingers club. The thrill of watching a live porn, seeing the excitement bulge in my man's pants then finishing the job was the "umph" I needed to reach the next plateau. So we did and research and are making plans to make the most out of this new adventure.

This is not an invitation for anyone to live on the wild and dangerous side. As always keep it safe. I do urge you to fulfill those inner desires, enrich your relationship with your partner and yourself for that matter. If your fantasy is to be experimental, start simple. Some yet going for the full Monty and skip the baby steps necessary to achieve total enjoyment. You must first learn to love sex before you can love being experimental. Be confident in yourself and your sexuality. This alone will intensify each encounter.

As always live your dreams, love yourself, have sex and be happy.

Hugs & Kisses!!
Lady Diva

One Night Stand -VS-Booty Call

From the Desk of Lady Diva

First and foremost, I would like to say thank you to all those who have visited Give It To Me Right!, became a follower and/or member on our Facebook group and reached out to give us your feedback. Due to the influx of compliments and encouragement, we are back with more juicy topics in the realms of sex, love and relationships.

Last week we focused on the first simple form of guilt free sex, MASTURBATION. This week we have chosen to focus on her step-sisters, One Night Stand and Booty Call. Those of you who have experienced either understand what I mean when I say they are just other forms of masturbation. Just like masturbation, we turn to One Night Stands and Booty Call to cure our need for an immediate, no strings attached orgasm.

The One Night Stand was once considered a single night theater performance. Still holding true to its meaning, it is still a single night performance between two (or more - hell the more the merrier, right?) individuals. One good sexual encounter between (almost) strangers for the sole purpose of a intimate release. There are those that look down on the One Night Stand (ONS) and may consider it pointless. (As if being able to release sexual frustration could ever be pointless.)

As with all other good things, there is always some kind of snafu. In this instance, its in the form of question. Is it possible for anyone to enter into these type of arrangements and stay committed to the No Strings Attached (NSA) rule? More so, can we have sex and not catch feelings?

My partner feels it is safer to stick with the good ole imagination. She says she has multiple ONS in her mind with the man of her dreams. She feels that its the safer way to play, no feelings and no worries. Like most, she believes no one can walk away from an ONS or Booty Call (BC) untouched. However, she is not against either. She just feels is a battle of mental strength.

I, on the other hand, have never, ever had a problem separating my emotions and walking away, head held high and fully satisfied. ONS are for those, who at times, do not desire a relationship but still crave the passion of intercourse. Yes, similar to a BC however, ONS does not have a second night encore performance whereas a BC can and most likely does.

ONS & BC, no matter the difference have one rule in common, it must be understood by both participants in order for it to work properly. False promises are not necessary nor appreciated. Individuals would much rather be told upfront what the situation is than harboring hard feelings down the line for being misled into thinking it would blossom into more. (HINT, HINT BROTHERS...SISTERS WANT OPTIONS!) But for the most part ONS are only considered by one and the other is unaware. After the sex, the dates, phone calls and all other sweet preludes cease. No need to continue to maintain the front, the job is done.

WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW:
ONE NIGHT STANDS ARE NOT THE SAME AS BOOTY CALLS.

ONS stands are never with the same partner. I know many that are a fan of the ONS. As long as their desires are met, they're GREAT!!! I have had both a ONS and a BC. As a matter of fact, at one time I had a serious fear of relationships and lived by the motto, "one and done." I couldn't and didn't want to deal with he day after "clinginess". You know the type that cries, "But we had sex!" when you cut them loose. Now I am not saying a sister has a Kat made of platinum, but this one brother got a taste and it was hell to shake him loose. So in fear of making the same mistake, I made a pact with a friend to be my BC. And we remained that way for 5 years. He was like a best friend. Our relationship was never complicated, we confided in each other and developed a different kind of love for one another. He was there when I needed someone to kiss, cuddle and share in foreplay.

Now I am not knocking ONS, if that's your choice, by all means, do you!!! But as they say, "buyers beware." You may wind up with a clingy one and if your sex game is on point, you may want to think twice. All it takes is one good hit and someone can go from sane to stalker over good sex. (Trust me, I know. LOL)

However keep in mind this one rule: DON'T EVER ASSUME IT IS MORE THAT IT IS!! Be sure everyone is on the same playing field for maximum enjoyment. I say this because there are some that assume sex = relationships. Not at all.

I know people are saying ONS and BC are so risque, so many diseases. I NEVER said go raw! That should be a given but for those that need to hear it - USE A CONDOM! SAFE SEX = GREAT SEX!

Remember there is nothing dirty about sex as long as we practice safe sex and good hygiene
So live, love, have great sex and be happy.